"Ask one simple question to clear the air with your moody son, plus join our Book Club+ discussion on Boy Mom: Reimagining Boyhood in the Age of Impossible Masculinity. Two essential tips for boy moms."

I'm coming to you today with a tip about ungrateful kids. So many of my clients worry that they're raising entitled kids who don't appreciate what they're given. This week, I'm sharing a tip straight from my Moms of Strong Willed Boys Facebook Group about how to raise grateful kids. Stay 'till the end if you're a Teen Boy Mom! I have a special tip for you too! Tip #1: Try the 3 Rs to Raise Grateful Kids Have you ever thought, "My kid has no idea how good he has it"? Or have

Below, I'm sharing the most common tip I've been handing out lately, plus some important information about connecting with your teen son. Tip #1: What to Do When Kids Shut Down After our Teen Boy Mom support group last week, I got this message: "Great session this morning! Would love to get your guidance on how to break the brick wall. I want to help and scaffold but it is hard to even get a breakthrough." This mom was talking about that moment when her son completely shuts d

I'm back in the office after an incredible week at Burning Man. My husband and I have been attending since 2004 (with a few breaks for pregnancy and nursing), and it remains the highlight of our year. We completely unplug from work and parenting responsibilities to reconnect with ourselves and each other. Here's something that might surprise you: we do this as much for our kids as we do for ourselves. I truly believe children need to see their parents prioritizing their adult

I hope your Back-to-School season is treating you well. I've got two tips for you today, both related to preventing the downsides of a "phone-based childhood." 1. What's Your Screen Time Plan this Year? This is a simple tip: If you don't have a screen time plan for the school year, it's time to make one. And to make it as effective as possible, here are a few sub-tips to keep in mind: Collaborate: Include your children in the decision-making process. Use empathetic dialog

Picture this: It's a beautiful summer day, and your phone rings. It's your son's camp counselor with those dreaded words, "We need to...

During this week's Boy Mom Academy meeting, almost everyone shared their frustration about summer screen use. It's a great time to pause...

I have a lot to share since I've been away from writing, so let's dive into two power tips that can transform your parenting this week....

Summer break is here, and if you're like most parents, you're already wondering how to keep your kids engaged without defaulting to...

Tantrums come in two forms: fiery (defiant, explosive) and watery (vulnerable, tearful). Shifting your child from fire to water is key for emotional growth. It’s about helping them feel understood, not just stopping the outburst. Plus, with summer around the corner, check out these screen-free ideas: free bowling, life skills camp, and a workshop on managing screen time. 🌞

“The 2015 Dress” Trick + A New Way to Partner with Me - Ever struggle to see eye to eye with your child? As a parent coach, I like to use the viral “Dress” illusion to teach perspective. Just like some saw it as white and gold, and others as blue and black, your child’s view may differ from yours (or his brother's), but it’s just as real. Recognize their perspective to build connection. Plus, learn how to share these insights and earn money through the Boy Mom Academy Partner

What do you do when your child completely melts down after you say “no”? This week’s Two Tip Tuesday tackles how to stay calm during big reactions and build your child’s ability to handle disappointment. Plus, don’t miss a helpful workshop on interoception—how kids tune into their internal needs to better regulate emotions. If your child struggles with transitions or gets overwhelmed easily, this resource could be a game-changer.

Struggling with a child who can't take "No" for an answer? Here's a tip: teach them to "Handle the No." For kids with ADHD or ADHD-ish traits, it's crucial to keep your response clear and avoid over-explaining. When they push back, reinforce that they can't change your mind but can manage their frustration. Celebrate their progress when they handle "No" well. Also, join our Moms of ADHD(ish?) Boys group for more tips.

Spring is so close I can taste it. I have seasonal affect despair —not a real disorder, just a deep longing for hot, sunny weather that I...

It turns out that Two Tip Tuesday sometimes arrives on Wednesdays. Imagine that! If you're new here, Two Tip Tuesday is where I send one...

Teach your child "spillover" to name big emotions and build awareness. Plus, try The Boy Mom Method™ app for expert parenting support! 🚀

Teach kids the difference between attention and connection, and set up a candy moderation system post-Halloween—no more struggles!

Shift your perspective: Recognize when your child seeks connection, not just attention, to meet their true needs and strengthen your bond.

Use magic tricks to capture kids' attention! Keep a deck handy for fun redirection and connection. Here's a simple card trick for all ages.

Say 'Use these words' to help your kids communicate better, and check out Loop Ear Plugs for reducing background noise in daily life.